Anonymous asked: I think you're wrong about Tyler Oakley. His youtube channel and subsequent interactions with LGBT youth have had a really big impact. I feel like you're attacking the wrong "enemy" here. Everyone does their part to support LGBT kids. Are you saying that gay guys can't be flamboyant? Cos I know of plenty who are like that without realising it's a "stereotype." I think he's hardly the biggest threat out there.
I wish we could have this conversation in person, but with you being all anonymous, I guess this is our only chance.
I’m not sure how Tyler Oakley has had a positive impact on LGBT youth, other than existing. Many people out there think that visibility of LGBT people alone is a triumph toward “normalizing” our culture, but I argue that the depictions of LGBT persons in our culture have a very intentional effect - and Tyler Oakley’s video was damaging, to say the least.
Just because he seemingly supports the community, when really it seems like he only supports men (and mostly white men at that) doesn’t mean that I should blindly follow suit. HIs message and his vision were narrow and self-defeating.
Also, I have no idea where your criticism comes from regarding the flamboyance of gay men. I never said they can’t be flamboyant. I said that the straight man portraying a cartoonish stereotype of gay mannerisms is inappropriate. I would be just as offended if Tyler had claimed to be an African-American female; unfortunately, this happens all too often amongst white gay men.
I’m sorry you don’t agree with me, and I honestly couldn’t care less. However, if you’d like to discuss the deep-seated issues at play in that video, I would be happy to expound on the intersectionality of oppression in our culture, and the staggering amount of male privilege on display in Tyler’s argument.
classwarandpizza asked: That Tyler Oakley post...let me love you! I was loving it already, and then you had me at "intersectionality of oppression and the firmly entrenched institutionalization of these concepts." AND THEN you hit me with "palpable male white privilege" and just... I have a new tumblr crush and I've only seen three of your posts. You're awesome.
Thanks, dude. I’m glad someone out there gets it. I’m getting really fed up with all of this blind support for LGBT rights, regardless of the message and the verbiage used. I found that video to be outrageously offensive and mean-spirited, and it didn’t seem like many people were saying it. I appreciate the support.
autobahnbeepbeep asked: I have no idea who you are, but seriously THANK YOU for that rant about Tyler Oakley... I'm so tired of him pretending to represent me.
My name is Jake and I like to take down ignorance in all forms - especially the likes of that moron Tyler Oakley.
Fuck hate? More like fuck stupidity.
I gotta testify, come up in the spot lookin' extra fly...
